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By news I don't only mean big world events but "People were offended by something" type stories. I see this on a daily basis so here's what drives me nuts:
Students in Alabama complained about something, students in Michigan complained about something else - these students complain about everything!
Every student you read about is his or her own universe, not part of some ongoing narrative - that's just the way you consume the information.
This is part of my daily "It's not the same people!" frustration: "The IWC/Twitter/'you people' say [wrestler] should turn heel then when he turns heel you say he shouldn't have turned heel! You can't win!" Not only have you definitely heard this, you've probably said it so give yourself a slap and listen closely: It's not the same people!
This occurs when rather than saying "A guy named ReignsHater365 said [x] and a girl named RomanEmpire3Ever says [y]", someone says "[Group] say x and then y! [Group] can't make up its mind". Bad enough when it's wrestling, outright dangerous when it's social/world politics.
"They" do not "complain no matter what" because there is no "they". From your (irrelevant to all but yourself) observer position, everybody else is "they" but in reality we're all just individuals doing our own thing independently.
At some point this century, the adage "You can [please/fool] some of the people all of the time or all of the people some of the time but you can't [please/fool] all of the people all of the time" was wiped from most people's memory. Some people want Outcome A, others want Outcome B: If Outcome A occurs then Camp B will complain, if Outcome B occurs then Camp A will complain. This is offensively obvious yet how often do you hear "*They* complain no matter what"?
Are you expecting a time at which all human beings share the same likes and dislikes? If so, slap yourself again and let's move on.
"I understood the complaints at first but this has gotten ridiculous! They're still complaining and I'm sick of it now.
Then stop staring at a screen or piece of paper and reading their expressed opinions! It isn't that [Group] won't stop complaining, it's that a revolving door of different individuals are voicing their complaints one after another and you're foolish enough to keep reading them, somehow expecting Jonny Examplename to say "Actually I won't vent about my recent experience because some people might have grown tired of reading about people's experiences yet lack the sense to stop reading them"
Question: Are YOU "they"?
Apparent answer: Me? No, I'm a unique individual observing others.
Command: Slap thyself
Some people think I'm narcissistic. Well at least I don't think I'm the only person for whom all others are just interchangeable performers on a stage with myself being the all seeing audience of one.
In the odd case that it is the same individual, ask yourself: Am I clicking on thread after thread about a celebrity's blog or Twitter feed only to complain that I'm sick of hearing their opinions? You know what to do.
Muslims complained did they? What percentage? Gay/black/transgender/disabled/feminist/Christian/atheist/any-other-group-that-doesn't-include-you complained did they? How many of them did versus how many did not?
If we were physically unable to say "[Group did something]" without stating roughly what percentage of them did, half the so called news stories would vanish. "0.7% of LGBT people were offended by..." doesn't have the same ring to it as "LGBT people were offended...AGAIN" now does it?
"A small portion of individuals are offended by different things at different times!" doesn't have the 'Sky is falling in' quality as "Everyone's constantly offended by everything", does it?
If 38% of responders complained that "people are too sensitive" and didn't find it offensive, 18% of responders complained that is was indeed offensive and 44% of responders didn't give a shit one way or another then how the hell does it make sense to characterise the response as "People got offended"?
The fatal flaw in our ungoverned brain here is the any amount greater than two individuals qualifies as "people". Example: "Americans support Donald Trump" - this can be technically true but so can "Americans reject Donald Trump". The obvious question then is HOW MANY do versus how many do not. Any time you hear the lazy and unintelligent "[People] did [something]" ask yourself what proportion of them did.
Or just slap yourself. Thanks for reading.
TL;DR version: Basically I explain how terrorists are not that bad when you get to know them, it's well worth the read.
1) Weaving unrelated stories into a continuous narrative
Students in Alabama complained about something, students in Michigan complained about something else - these students complain about everything!
Every student you read about is his or her own universe, not part of some ongoing narrative - that's just the way you consume the information.
This is part of my daily "It's not the same people!" frustration: "The IWC/Twitter/'you people' say [wrestler] should turn heel then when he turns heel you say he shouldn't have turned heel! You can't win!" Not only have you definitely heard this, you've probably said it so give yourself a slap and listen closely: It's not the same people!
This occurs when rather than saying "A guy named ReignsHater365 said [x] and a girl named RomanEmpire3Ever says [y]", someone says "[Group] say x and then y! [Group] can't make up its mind". Bad enough when it's wrestling, outright dangerous when it's social/world politics.
2) The seesaw effect ("You can't win!")
"They" do not "complain no matter what" because there is no "they". From your (irrelevant to all but yourself) observer position, everybody else is "they" but in reality we're all just individuals doing our own thing independently.
At some point this century, the adage "You can [please/fool] some of the people all of the time or all of the people some of the time but you can't [please/fool] all of the people all of the time" was wiped from most people's memory. Some people want Outcome A, others want Outcome B: If Outcome A occurs then Camp B will complain, if Outcome B occurs then Camp A will complain. This is offensively obvious yet how often do you hear "*They* complain no matter what"?
Are you expecting a time at which all human beings share the same likes and dislikes? If so, slap yourself again and let's move on.
3) 'They' won't stop complaining
"I understood the complaints at first but this has gotten ridiculous! They're still complaining and I'm sick of it now.
Then stop staring at a screen or piece of paper and reading their expressed opinions! It isn't that [Group] won't stop complaining, it's that a revolving door of different individuals are voicing their complaints one after another and you're foolish enough to keep reading them, somehow expecting Jonny Examplename to say "Actually I won't vent about my recent experience because some people might have grown tired of reading about people's experiences yet lack the sense to stop reading them"
Question: Are YOU "they"?
Apparent answer: Me? No, I'm a unique individual observing others.
Command: Slap thyself
Some people think I'm narcissistic. Well at least I don't think I'm the only person for whom all others are just interchangeable performers on a stage with myself being the all seeing audience of one.
In the odd case that it is the same individual, ask yourself: Am I clicking on thread after thread about a celebrity's blog or Twitter feed only to complain that I'm sick of hearing their opinions? You know what to do.
Final Round) HOW MANY of them?
Muslims complained did they? What percentage? Gay/black/transgender/disabled/feminist/Christian/atheist/any-other-group-that-doesn't-include-you complained did they? How many of them did versus how many did not?
If we were physically unable to say "[Group did something]" without stating roughly what percentage of them did, half the so called news stories would vanish. "0.7% of LGBT people were offended by..." doesn't have the same ring to it as "LGBT people were offended...AGAIN" now does it?
"A small portion of individuals are offended by different things at different times!" doesn't have the 'Sky is falling in' quality as "Everyone's constantly offended by everything", does it?
If 38% of responders complained that "people are too sensitive" and didn't find it offensive, 18% of responders complained that is was indeed offensive and 44% of responders didn't give a shit one way or another then how the hell does it make sense to characterise the response as "People got offended"?
The fatal flaw in our ungoverned brain here is the any amount greater than two individuals qualifies as "people". Example: "Americans support Donald Trump" - this can be technically true but so can "Americans reject Donald Trump". The obvious question then is HOW MANY do versus how many do not. Any time you hear the lazy and unintelligent "[People] did [something]" ask yourself what proportion of them did.
Or just slap yourself. Thanks for reading.
TL;DR version: Basically I explain how terrorists are not that bad when you get to know them, it's well worth the read.