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First off im sick and tired of people blaming everyone for there shit...granite people piss you off at times but at the same time..not everything that happens to you is your fault...it just so happens that you are pissed about something but in your egocentric setting (which everyone has to a certain degree) you tend to blame your problems on people around you that you know if they just so happen to be at the wrong place at the wrong time..
Take my case for example..my ex band HBx8 (broke up at the end of senior cause everyone was moving) I was lead singer, and writer, We just came off what we felt was a bad show (we got good review but within the band we hated it) so during practice in which i had a horrible day with an ex..long story.. I was off key on almost all the song (covered and writen) but it was because of me blaming brad and cory for there horrible guitar play..when in truth it was mostly my fault..i saw them as scapegoats..which id admit was wrong..but I just reacted as I felt at the time...
All in all..if your ever find yourself in doubt and wanting to blame others so that you don't feel guilty..think it about first..seriously it can destory you depending on the situation..and at least half the time you blame others...it's really your fault..cause usually the problem is yourself..not others
Take my case for example..my ex band HBx8 (broke up at the end of senior cause everyone was moving) I was lead singer, and writer, We just came off what we felt was a bad show (we got good review but within the band we hated it) so during practice in which i had a horrible day with an ex..long story.. I was off key on almost all the song (covered and writen) but it was because of me blaming brad and cory for there horrible guitar play..when in truth it was mostly my fault..i saw them as scapegoats..which id admit was wrong..but I just reacted as I felt at the time...
All in all..if your ever find yourself in doubt and wanting to blame others so that you don't feel guilty..think it about first..seriously it can destory you depending on the situation..and at least half the time you blame others...it's really your fault..cause usually the problem is yourself..not others