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Okay, here's the deal, I've known this girl since September last year, we're on the same college course and we became friends, we're quite good friends. We were exactly just that until last month when we got well and truly leathered, which involved her sending a text to me saying she likes me. She lives ages away from me so I said she could stay at mine, that night she gave me a HJ and I fingered her. You probably don't wanna here this but I'm just saying it so you all get the jist of it.

Anyway, that happened last month and since then nothing else had happened, we didn't even mention it, I wasn't drunk at the time we did it but I'm not sure whether she'd sobered up at that point. Since, she's been a bit of a whore and has made a point of telling me everyone she had slept with the night before, I'm not sure whether this is hinting at me to do something, or whether she's just telling me because I'm a friend and that's what you do.

She stayed at mine yesterday and when she got to my house she told me she had a boyfriend who she'd been with 5 days, she then went on to pretty much slag him off, listing all his bad traits and not one good thing lol. That night we slept in the same bed, we slept close, her head on my arm, my arm round her waist, held my hand etc. Now, I'm not sure whether she wanted me to do anything at that point, or whether she's just wanted to have someone close, I mean some people are like that, they just like a bit of cuddling and things sometimes.

It might look clearly obvious to you that she wants me, but I just don't know, partly because of little things that gave the impression she didn't want me to, like when getting changed for bed she told me not to look. I just really want people's opinions, on what I should do, shouldn't do.
 

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Sounds like she just doesn't know what she wants from you, honesty don't bother with people who can't make up their mind on simply whether they like you or not. Unless you feel like fucking someone and nothing more, then persue her to your dicks content :).
 

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Yeah you're all probably right, even if I got with her, knowing what she tends to do, I don't think I'd be able to trust her and then there's just no point to it. The only reason I don't distance myself from her and her antics is because she's a mate and I tend to let that stuff slide more when I've got to know someone. Thanks for spelling it out to me anyway.!
 

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Okay, here's the deal, I've known this girl since September last year, we're on the same college course and we became friends, we're quite good friends. We were exactly just that until last month when we got well and truly leathered, which involved her sending a text to me saying she likes me. She lives ages away from me so I said she could stay at mine, that night she gave me a HJ and I fingered her. You probably don't wanna here this but I'm just saying it so you all get the jist of it.

Anyway, that happened last month and since then nothing else had happened, we didn't even mention it, I wasn't drunk at the time we did it but I'm not sure whether she'd sobered up at that point. Since, she's been a bit of a whore and has made a point of telling me everyone she had slept with the night before, I'm not sure whether this is hinting at me to do something, or whether she's just telling me because I'm a friend and that's what you do.

She stayed at mine yesterday and when she got to my house she told me she had a boyfriend who she'd been with 5 days, she then went on to pretty much slag him off, listing all his bad traits and not one good thing lol. That night we slept in the same bed, we slept close, her head on my arm, my arm round her waist, held my hand etc. Now, I'm not sure whether she wanted me to do anything at that point, or whether she's just wanted to have someone close, I mean some people are like that, they just like a bit of cuddling and things sometimes.

It might look clearly obvious to you that she wants me, but I just don't know, partly because of little things that gave the impression she didn't want me to, like when getting changed for bed she told me not to look. I just really want people's opinions, on what I should do, shouldn't do.
Pro

She told you she liked you first.

Con

She was hammered and hasn't brought it up since.

Pro

Number of people she's slept with doesn't matter.

Con

Her making a point of telling you is acting the bitch.

Pro

Her boyfriend probably doesn't exist.

Con

If he doesn't, she's acting the bitch by lying about it. If he does, she's acting the bitch by slagging him off after five days together, and sharing a bed with another guy.

Pro

First night sexy time


Con

Reading the sentence "she gave me a HJ and I fingered her"


Summary - avoid. Best case scenario she's bullshitting and playing mind games - in which case you don't wanna get messed up with that when you are friends with her and have to see her all the time in college. Worst case scenario - she's a slag who clearly doesn't respect her fella and you are mugging off some other guy. I don't care what people on here say, you shouldn't mess about with someone else's missus. Doesn't sound like you are too enamoured with her. Don't persue it. If it happens so be it, but don't chase it and make a gimp of yourself.
 

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Smash then dash.
 
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