Thursday night my roommate and I threw a party.
We invited 20 of our closest friends, and their significant others.
All was going great until about 2am, it was then that I opened my bathroom door, and saw the boyfriend of my closest friend sitting on the side of the bathtub with a needle in his arm!
I went ballistic!!
I raised hell, and ended up physically throwing his ass out.
Now, just so ya'll know, I had a dear friend, Chastity, die from an overdose about 4 years ago, and all of my friends know that, and they know how strongly I feel about needle dope.
I am the type who doesn't judge my friends for their drug choices, but cannot, and will not, ever accept the use of needles in my presence, or in my home!
They all know that, yet my friend is now pissed at me for throwing her boyfriend out, and for cursing him, even though she knows how I feel, and why.
Now I'm wondering, in light of her reaction, if she ever really was my friend at all.
If she was, wouldn't she be more supportive of my feelings, and of my reaction to the situation, even if it was her boyfriend?
Also, knowing my feelings, shouldn't she have told her boyfriend to either refrain from shooting up in my house, or just not go?
Or, do ya'll think I was wrong, and should have kept my mouth shut, and let it slide?
We invited 20 of our closest friends, and their significant others.
All was going great until about 2am, it was then that I opened my bathroom door, and saw the boyfriend of my closest friend sitting on the side of the bathtub with a needle in his arm!
I went ballistic!!
I raised hell, and ended up physically throwing his ass out.
Now, just so ya'll know, I had a dear friend, Chastity, die from an overdose about 4 years ago, and all of my friends know that, and they know how strongly I feel about needle dope.
I am the type who doesn't judge my friends for their drug choices, but cannot, and will not, ever accept the use of needles in my presence, or in my home!
They all know that, yet my friend is now pissed at me for throwing her boyfriend out, and for cursing him, even though she knows how I feel, and why.
Now I'm wondering, in light of her reaction, if she ever really was my friend at all.
If she was, wouldn't she be more supportive of my feelings, and of my reaction to the situation, even if it was her boyfriend?
Also, knowing my feelings, shouldn't she have told her boyfriend to either refrain from shooting up in my house, or just not go?
Or, do ya'll think I was wrong, and should have kept my mouth shut, and let it slide?