Horrible First Dates?
This is timely for me so I thought it would be a fun discussion thread.
I just went on a date with a girl I met in class(smaller school with no dorms). We talked for a while, and I asked her to hang out sometime, and she said she was down, but she had a boyfriend. At that point I just chalked it up as an L, too many women in the world to fuck around with those in committed relationships.
We still had class and she got increasingly flirty with me, so I was just thinking "She probably broke up with her boyfriend". Texted her to go on a date and she got super excited, and I was thinking "shit, this seems like easy mode", and I just told her let's get some food and go back to my place for drinks(code for LET'S FUCK). She said she was down.
She meets up with me at a mall, and I 5 minutes in, she just starts breaking down and tearing up. I'm like "Hey, what's wrong?", and she tells me "I'm sorry, I know I should've told you before, but my boyfriend died last month and it's been really hard". I'm just like "Oh fuck", I don't know how to handle a situation like this, I wanted to get out because it got super uncomfortable at that point, but of course I couldn't do that. Stick around and we eat at this spot, and I take her back to my apartment(I live alone so it would be easier for her to gush there).
She comes over and is just crying, and crying, and crying, I'm trying to play therapist, listening to her, but what the fuck am I supposed to do? I didn't even feel right making a move on her, but I gave her a kiss at the end, which I probably shouldn't have, probably just going to try to disappear now lol