that's bad form, man. u shouldn't out a pm'er who you're on good terms with.
Actually, what happened was, this person was on my FB list, and literally messaged me daily with shit that had to do with the forum. For example, if I green repped a post he made, he would respond to the rep. I do not care about this fucking forum when I am not on it. We all had the neg rep shit going on not long ago and it seems everyone except this one person has walked away from it because it was just a funny little fad. This guy sends messages out copying both myself and sXe asking us to neg someone, usually a fucking random nobody, because they have been constantly negging him daily.
I messaged him one day on FB just saying he was getting annoying because he kept commenting on everything that happened here and that I basically don't care about discussing this place daily when I am not logged in. He hasn't spoken to me since, I deleted him from my list, he hasn't spoken to me here, but he messaged me asking for me (and sXe) to neg someone for him.
I actually did tell him politely that he was getting annoying with the constant messages and he got all mad, so I told him to chill out. He then made an FB status update saying some people take the internet too seriously. I was inches away from responding to that update, but, alas, did not want to bury him in front of all his friends and family.
If you are going to ignore me because I nicely responded to your annoying daily messages about the forum, okay, but to then suddenly only want to contact me when you want to neg someone, no.