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post #1 of 31 (permalink) Old 12-13-2012, 10:46 PM Thread Starter
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Personal Rant

Bit of a personal rant here, I'd appreciate it if you guys didn't make jokes and try to take the piss as its something that has hurt me quite a lot and a few posters could probably relate to.

Yesterday my parents split up. I'm 20 years old so I'm not as bothered as I would have been say a few years ago. But during the argument I overheard a lot of things that I would have rather been in the dark about. When my mother was pregnant with me, my father cheated on her in another country when he was on holiday with friends, just the one time. Obviously I am pissed off with this and even though it was before I was born still greatly bothers me. I also found out that when I was born, say around a few months old, my mother had an affair. The bloke my mother had an affair with tried to make her leave my father and two very young children behind and tried to split up a family.

This has played on my mind ever since I found out and though it was say 19 years ago I cannot stop thinking about it and thinking about the man who tried to ruin my family and take my mother away from her two young children. I'm not going to lie with all the emotions running around my head right now I want to punish the man, and make him pay. There is nothing more I would like to do than torture him and put him through the greatest pain possible.

Not going to lie I'm heartbroken to find out so many dark secrets about my family.
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Why don't you look at the positive of your mum not leaving you when you were young.


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Just talk to your mom about.

Chances are that the guy she had an affair with is long gone.

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I have done that and I have stuck by my mum through this. But I've come home from a night of drinking tonight and let all my emotions out on her. I love her to bits, but this is still nagging on me in the back of my mind.

I spoke to a few friends about it tonight and they said not to let it bother me, its in the past and so is the guy, but meh I just can't get over it. I put my mum on a pedestal before.
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Not sure this is the kind of thing you want to just tell to people on the internet. Just doesn't seem like the best medium available. Sorry, though. Calm yourself down and go do something that makes you happy, or go talk to your parents about this. They're probably the best people to help you get through this.


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I put it on here because I needed to vent my feelings and frustration and what was better to do it than anonymously? And I'm sure there are some posters who have been through the same experience or something similar.

Just feel like I need to get it off my chest without airing my parents dirty laundry to people that know them, so it would effect their views on them.
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Don't you have any friends?
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Do you still love your mother?

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Don't you have any friends?
If you read all of my posts you would have seen that I said I have spoken to some friends about it, but the problem still played on my mind.
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Not sure this is the kind of thing you want to just tell to people on the internet. Just doesn't seem like the best medium available. Sorry, though. Calm yourself down and go do something that makes you happy, or go talk to your parents about this. They're probably the best people to help you get through this.
Why not? It's not like we know this guy's real name and are gonna track down his family based on this story. If he wants to vent, let him.


If this stuff happened 20 years ago then obviously both your parents at some point decided to put it behind them. I can't see a relationship working for 20 years if they kept throwing that shit in each other's faces. What you heard was probably out of spite because they're splitting up now, likely for different reasons. My point is, they put it behind them for 20 years, so you might as well put it behind you also. Your mom and dad didn't suddenly become different people because you learned a couple facts about them from 20 years ago. Also, your mom stayed with you and kept the family together. That's something to be very relieved about.

I would say forget about that stuff because it didn't affect your life then, or for 20 years, so don't let it affect your life now. There is no upside in dwelling on this stuff.


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