Yes! A Thread that's not a long feud that ends up being quite dull in the end!
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Originally Posted by BULLY
[b][size="4"] Not spend hours on some shitty pokemon or WOW game and think that I'm KEWL.
Hey, fuck you, you dinosaur I played WoW once! It was a waste of time and money to be honest you literally had to have no life to get any real joy out of it. Hence why I never played for more then a few months at a time and quit.
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I'd use the money my mum gave me to go to the arcades and play Streetfighter 2.
Dude. I used to rock at Street Fighter 2, I remember I would even beat all the Asian kids ( at that time it was like a measure of how good you were ). I even almost got in to a fight with this one Asian guy after wrecking him in front of his friends in King of Fighters, srs bzns.
I'll give an example of my childhood:
Spoiler for ChAMPS's Childhood:
I was a really calm, nice kid who couldn't even make a fist without it feeling 'odd'. My parents had nothing to worry about with me, I didn't 'cause much trouble at all. I was bullied by some retard with terrible parents in my building in the shady parts of East Vancouver. He was actually my friend but he'd take his frustrations out on me. Anyway, outside of that I never got bullied in school or anything. Once I reached 5th grade and had to go to a school with a bad reputation for having 'bad kids'. I knew I couldn't carry on the way i was. So I changed, I stood up to people, I dressed differently to fit in. This one kid 2 years my senior tried to bully me and I wasn't gonna have it so I pushed him in to the lockers and got in his face. He became my bitch for the rest of the year and in fact would hide behind the recess ladies when he'd see me. I didn't become a bully after that in fact I just adapted, I was confrontational but I didn't take shit either, I never backed down from anything since then.
That kid form my building that used to bully me? Became a drug addict would never even think of fighting me now and I remember one time he almost OD'd outside the building and my dad and I helped to his house and I felt so bad for him because we were friends. I eventually realised as I got older that he was that way because his home life was just shit. A lot of it has to do with ones upbringing.
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Re: Want your kids to grow up to be a pussy?
Of course the only viable long-term solution to the bullying problem is peaceful parenting. Children mirror the behavior of the adults in their lives, so when parents beat or verbally abuse their children or each other in the presence of children, that creates an imprint on the child's mind on how to behave. However, since you can't count on or force other people to raise their kids correctly, I'd say the best thing you can do is get your child involved in some type of martial arts so they can defend themselves if they need to against the aggressors in the world.
In short yeah I agree, fight back and defend yourself.
BE A STAR is ridiculous because it places the burden on the children to solve bullying. It's not a child problem, it's a parenting problem.
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Teaching your kids that they should stand up for themselves is important, but sadly many parents these days are pussies. They spoil their kids and turn them into entitled little douchebags that think they can get away with anything. Pertaining to online bullying, a lot of children are obsessed with social media and are too insecure to delete the people who bully them in fear of leaving some circle of friends.
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Re: Want your kids to grow up to be a pussy?
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Originally Posted by BULLY
Worse how?
Why do they think you're a dealer?
Sounds like you had a pretty easy childhood. Did you go to a public or private school?
Bullies today are a lot worse. Few years back if you got bullied it would be name calling or maybe a push. There's a kid who is mentally challenged in my HS and he gets made fun of, beat up, and etc. There's really nothing he can do. He got chased into his house and beat up last year after getting off the bus.
In my school self defense gets you arrested and you get kicked out of all important school things. Work hard all your childhood, hit to defend yourself? Oh well, you're screwed. Good college? Screwed. Fighting back gets you in even deeper trouble.
If you bully someone you can fuck off. I don't mean fighting someone, or just in general name calling, but like the thing I described above. You can honestly fall off a cliff if you do that shit.
Internet bullying is so easy to deal with (except for cases like Amanda Todd) and so is real-life bullying
Even if the bully is twice the size you are, a kick in the nuts drops every man out there with no exception.
Maybe not Apocalypto...
Now I don't condone bullying in any way, I think it's despicable, but there's many, many ways to deal with it.
Parents need to stop educating their kids with the "if someone messes with you, tell on them to teachers" or "tell mommy and daddy what happened" and stuff like that. You have to learn how to deal with your problems, enemies, and obstacles on your own
There are some cases that help really is needed and almost impossible to deal with it on your own, but those are rare.
The anwser to bullying to put your kids into kung fu or something like it. As far as internet bullying goes, just keep them off of it. Priblem solved.
That is true. I got bullied when I was younger. My parents put me in Wado Ryu Karate when they found out, and it gave me so much confidence that it changed my life completely in high school. Never got bullied again.
Want your kids to grow up to be a pussy?
Re: Want your kids to grow up to be a pussy?
It was a waste of time and money to be honest you literally had to have no life to get any real joy out of it. Hence why I never played for more then a few months at a time and quit.
