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View Poll Results: What do you think I should do with my Brother\Friend issues?

Tell your friends about it and just go about it casually 1 12.50%
Completely ignore it and continue to torture your mind 2 25.00%
Buy a shotgun and when they are playing Poker blow there fucking brains out 5 62.50%
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Old 09-20-2011, 05:43 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Need your advice here\ Friends ~ Brother disconnection

So me and my brother have had a bad history in the last month. I'm 18 years old and he's 22 years old, Long story short he's a piece of shit. But let's extend this out a little more and give you some background story. In the last couple of years he has continued to take shots at me personally and get under my skin. Even after he apologizes he still manages to verbally abuse me and mistreat me. For an example, I don't have a car but my brother does and he drove us to a park to play basketball. We needed people to play so I invited my friend Lawrence and before I invited I informed my brother that he was coming (lawrence doesnt have a car so he would need a lift back home) But I initally told him I'm inviting Lawrence and he didn't have any problems with it (at least not yet). On the way back home he drops off my buddy Lawrence who lives 10 miles away. After dropping him off he starts ranting about how I need to wash his car and how I'm a loser for not having a car. So than we start arguing from there and he tells me to get out of the car and walk than. I say ok I will walk and he drops me off with a little "HAVE FUN WALKING BITCH" before he drove the fuck off. It was 10 oclock at night time and I was playing basketball the last 5 hours at the park so he left me 10 miles away from home stranded hungry and tired. This isn't even the worst thing he's done to me but me and Lawrence both agreed it was pretty brutal.

I'm way past the point where I dwell and dwell on how bad of a brother he is and have simply moved on. The only problem is me and him have the same friends and I'm even starting to lose respect for a few of my friends for hanging out with a worthless piece of garbage like him. Here is where the obstable comes in place. Besides my really good buddy Lawrence, NOBODY KNOWS me and my brother Johnny have an awful relationship and we live in the same house and never say a damn word to each other. So I don't want to really associate myself with a person like that. But we all play basketball and we have our own little team going called the JERRM which is basically all our initials. My friend today just told me that he got some information from a flyer that he saw and there's a tournament coming up in a month. I DONT want to play in this tournament because my brother Johnny is going to be playing on our team. The guy does not even talk to me at home and I don't talk to him and he's been a complete dick to me for the last couple of years and has slowly gotten worse as my life has gone by. Why the fuck would I want to be on the same team with him? Here's where the question comes in place. My friend is really looking foward to the tournament and I like this friend a lot and don't really want to ruin things for him. But I have to tell him and just can't really figure out a way how. I want to tell him my whole complete feelings towards my brother and also want to tell him I don't want anything to do with this tournament or any other tournament that includes my brother AGAIN. What's the best way to confront him about this and let it to him easilly?


Another issue that I have already mentioned above is that we have the same friends. My brother usually invites these friends over every weekend or every other weekend to hangout and play poker. I don't really want to hangout in a group because quite frankly don't want to be around my brother and not only that I'm starting to get disgusted by the fact that they are friends with this guy and can't see through how gutless of a worm he is. The only problem is ITS ALWAYS AT MY HOUSE and he invites them pretty late at night like around 10 or 11pm. What the fuck am I supposed to do without a car or where the fuck am I supposed to go? My buddy Lawrence just told me I should just stay in my room and tell anybody who comes in I don't really want to hang out tonight. Believe me, I've done this before but it gets really boring just hanging in there because I have insomnia and don't really feel like being bothered by these gutless cowards outside of my house (yes I'm talking about most of my friends FUCK EM). So things are pretty complicated when the guy you live with is a fucking coward and it seems like you are the only one in the world who knows. Thoughts??
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Old 09-20-2011, 06:05 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Tie him down Dexter style and then shove an icicle down his throat until he dies. Then melt the icicle and drink it. Cut off his fingers and toes, remove his teeth. hang him upside down, drain the blood and get rid of it. Chop the body up and disperse it at your leisure. It's the perfect crime, really.

Or, if you don't want to go that far...I have no idea. I'm an only child so I have zero experiences with this type of stuff. And if you two live together, I fail to see what you can do until one of you moves out.
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Old 09-20-2011, 06:15 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Tie him down Dexter style and then shove an icicle down his throat until he dies. Then melt the icicle and drink it. Cut off his fingers and toes, remove his teeth. hang him upside down, drain the blood and get rid of it. Chop the body up and disperse it at your leisure. It's the perfect crime, really.

I'll take this into serious consideration.

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Old 09-20-2011, 10:26 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I want to kick in the faces of people who don't want others to hang out with someone just because they get picked on by said person.

If person A is a cunt to you and person A is never a cunt to me, I am not going to NOT be friends with them just because they make fun of you. Fuck off, people don't have to stop being friends with him just because he allegedly treats you like a bag of shit.


You sound like an 18 year old pussy. Man the fuck up, it's not like you're 5 years old and your 22 year old brother is being a dick towards you. In fact, based on this rant, it looks like he has good reason to treat you like an inferior. If I had an 18 year old brother who didn't drive and was a whiny little bitch, I would treat him like such as well.

Grow a pair, get a car, and stop asking him to drive you and your friends around. There is something called PUBLIC TRANSIT, and a little thing called a taxi.
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stop asking him to do favors for u like driving u around, when he's doing u favors, he's got the go ahead to talk shit.
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You didn't have to get out of the car.
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Old 09-20-2011, 01:48 PM   #7 (permalink)
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tbh op anyway who gives you shit right now about "being a bitch" is a complete moron or has no experience of this themselves, it has nothing to do with that. if you're really looking for advice, filter through that.
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to further explain my last post, it's like this op. the more favors someone does for u, the less they respect u, it's gradual. with that comes bullying and distance. to get the respect back, u can't ask him for anything, and u gotta help him at some point. that's why i think a lot of older siblings bully their younger ones, cuz they always gotta look out for them, while getting nothing in return. it's annoying and frustrating. when they get older it stops not because they're older, but because they don't have a pain in the ass little sibling to look out for anymore. you're older brothers probably giving u rides left an right but what do u do for him? it's a give and take world. only people who owe u unlimited amount of favors is your parents, because they put u here, u didn't ask for it. yea, it's a gift to be alive, but there's a lot of bs that goes with it.
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I want to kick in the faces of people who don't want others to hang out with someone just because they get picked on by said person.

If person A is a cunt to you and person A is never a cunt to me, I am not going to NOT be friends with them just because they make fun of you. Fuck off, people don't have to stop being friends with him just because he allegedly treats you like a bag of shit.


You sound like an 18 year old pussy. Man the fuck up, it's not like you're 5 years old and your 22 year old brother is being a dick towards you. In fact, based on this rant, it looks like he has good reason to treat you like an inferior. If I had an 18 year old brother who didn't drive and was a whiny little bitch, I would treat him like such as well.

Grow a pair, get a car, and stop asking him to drive you and your friends around. There is something called PUBLIC TRANSIT, and a little thing called a taxi.
You are a complete moron who took the post and exaggerrated and totally didn't look at the specific points. Did I ever say I wanted to stop hanging out with my friends or I wanted my friends to stop hanging out with him? NO. I said I didn't want to hang out with them in a group because I don't like being around my by brother. Is that being a whiny bitch? I rarely rarely EVER ask my brother for favors and this was SPECIFICALLY his idea. Did I say I go around asking him to give me a ride? The basketball idea was his idea all the way and I specifically told him my friend is coming over and we all went in a group. It's not like I'm throwing out random ideas and telling him DRIVE me here or Drive him here. When was I a whiny bitch? On the drive home I completely kept to myself and didn't say a WORD until he was the first to start whining. It was almost like your mom just got done spanking you in the ass before you wrote this post as this is a totally unthoughtful posts with serious lack of comprehending. You need to get your facts straight, Idiot guy.

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to further explain my last post, it's like this op. the more favors someone does for u, the less they respect u, it's gradual. with that comes bullying and distance. to get the respect back, u can't ask him for anything, and u gotta help him at some point. that's why i think a lot of older siblings bully their younger ones, cuz they always gotta look out for them, while getting nothing in return. it's annoying and frustrating. when they get older it stops not because they're older, but because they don't have a pain in the ass little sibling to look out for anymore. you're older brothers probably giving u rides left an right but what do u do for him? it's a give and take world. only people who owe u unlimited amount of favors is your parents, because they put u here, u didn't ask for it. yea, it's a gift to be alive, but there's a lot of bs that goes with it.
You are taking into what the idiot guy in front of you said and exaggeratting just like he did. I don't ask him for favors and this wasn't even considered a favor. This was specifically his idea so why would he totally disobey his own idea and get pissed off about it for no reason? Did I ever say once that he gives me rides "left and right" because that's totally not true either and you are taking this way out of context. I never ask the guy for favors and this was a group thing in which he has no problems dropping off another friend but yet complains about his own brother. If you honestly think I'm the wrong in this situation than I think you need to look in the mirror because in reality you are just as bad as him and have some serious comprehending issues as well.
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tbh op anyway who gives you shit right now about "being a bitch" is a complete moron or has no experience of this themselves, it has nothing to do with that. if you're really looking for advice, filter through that.
I'm not really looking for SERIOUS advice. It's just that I wanted to hear some opinions on it just to get a point of perspective in which they don't know either one of us. So far it's been pretty disappointing as people have obviously not read what I said correctly or took something out of context. I already have a very very strong opinion towards it and have my inner thoughts already scanned at my own point of view and I go on this forum a lot so I thought I can get some interesting feedback, Apparently not.
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