Re: Need your advice here\ Friends ~ Brother disconnection
to further explain my last post, it's like this op. the more favors someone does for u, the less they respect u, it's gradual. with that comes bullying and distance. to get the respect back, u can't ask him for anything, and u gotta help him at some point. that's why i think a lot of older siblings bully their younger ones, cuz they always gotta look out for them, while getting nothing in return. it's annoying and frustrating. when they get older it stops not because they're older, but because they don't have a pain in the ass little sibling to look out for anymore. you're older brothers probably giving u rides left an right but what do u do for him? it's a give and take world. only people who owe u unlimited amount of favors is your parents, because they put u here, u didn't ask for it. yea, it's a gift to be alive, but there's a lot of bs that goes with it.