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Old 04-23-2011, 02:44 PM   #41 (permalink)
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UGH! I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD MY GIRL PISSES ME THE FUCK OFF SOMETIMES!

okay okay listen to this alright she would get upset and mad if I didn't text her back right but when I ask her what took her she gets pissed the fuck off right okay so we fight and fight and bitch and fight and then i also bring up how she says "love you" and not "i love you' sometimes....and to me and to my few friends i asked....."love you" is what you say to a friend not the fucking guy you are getting married too. So we fight more and she says "I'm so fucking done with this" and i ask what she means "I mean I'm done" and i ask if she's breaking up with me she said "idk"

So really what the hell and yeah I know I'm gonna get told by most of you I'm wrong I know how the rants section works but w/e I had to rant go ahead tell me I'm wrong no matter if I am or not idc.
1) She's being childish and insecure
2)You are definitely NOT ready to get married, that goes for her too. I don't know you or her personally but if you can have an argument about something so petty then you both need to grow up
3)"Love you" and "i love you" is the same damn thing. Your friends are full of shit if they actually believe that there's a difference, same can be said for you. It's not just about what you say, it's how you say it and what you mean by it that matters
4)She answers with "I'm done with this" and then with "idk" when you ask her whether you're breaking up CLEARY shows cracks in the foundation, in other words, if she was ready to get married she wouldn't have answered "idk" no matter how pissed of she gets. It sounds like she's been having doubts for quite a while and while i really hate to say it, the two of you are heading for a break up.
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Old 04-23-2011, 02:46 PM   #42 (permalink)
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A couple of things jump out here PB. In no particular order...

She has never replied to the are we breaking up thing with IDK before. How often do you ask the question? If you've had to ask it more than twice, I think you need to think long and hard about whether getting married is really the best thing for both of you.

She gets annoyed when you don't reply straight away but she often doesn't reply herself. Welcome to women. They are often irrational and a tad crazy. Get used to it. You love this girl - let her be a little crazy. Are there women out there who don't display this kind of irrational behaviour? Of course there are - but it shouldn't be a deal breaker. A lot of people will probably disagree on this issue, but I'm of the opinion that you accept the little things if the big things are working.

She's marrying you. She loves you. Accept it. Doesn't matter if she says love you or I love you at the end of conversations. I assume you have asked her whether she loves you or not? If not, ask her. She says yes - accept it and stop worrying about the words she uses to express it. She says no - it's time to call it a day.

Honest opinion, it doesn't sound like you guys are in the best place to get married. I could be wrong - obviously this opinion is based on the feck all amount of information you've provided. Hopefully I am wrong. It can't do any harm to have a good think about it, and probably a good honest conversation with her. Make sure you guys want the same thing, and that you're both prepared for the compromises and level of acceptance that a marriage requires.

Best of luck.
Well no honestly first time I ever asked that its just the few times we have a fight we try to stop it and one of us say we don't wanna break up over this for the other to say we're not gonna break up.

Like I said the texting thing is just what broke me. I've put her with some of the things for awhile now that she tries to get away with that I don't so its like after awhile you just gotta speak up and not take the crap anymore


Yeah okay true but this love you thing has only started the last month so has the whole getting mad at me over stuff that I do that she does also. So this last month has been rocky.
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Old 04-23-2011, 03:09 PM   #43 (permalink)
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Look, i know my first reply to you thread might seem harsh and all but i was just giving you an honest opinion. Ladycroft does make a good point, her issues are beyond just text messages. To be honest, i encountered the same thing once before and when i confronted the girl as to what her problem was, she never really said anything until out of the blue her and i broke up. She was seeing another guy behind my back(and then a month after we broke up she had nerve to ask me to give her another chance)...my point is this, she might not be cheating on you but there's definitely more going on then you may realize. You also can't deny that the whole "i love you" thing is fairly petty on your part but that's not taking away from the fact that she's much more petty.
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Well no honestly first time I ever asked that its just the few times we have a fight we try to stop it and one of us say we don't wanna break up over this for the other to say we're not gonna break up.

Like I said the texting thing is just what broke me. I've put her with some of the things for awhile now that she tries to get away with that I don't so its like after awhile you just gotta speak up and not take the crap anymore


Yeah okay true but this love you thing has only started the last month so has the whole getting mad at me over stuff that I do that she does also. So this last month has been rocky.
1st things first, stop mentioning breaking up. Breaking up should only be brought up if it's something that you want or if it's something you are resigned to as being the right course of action. Asking about breaking up changes standard arguments into deal breakers. Fights are normal. Every couple have them. You have to accept that it is going to be part of the relationship and forcefully stop yourself from bringing the relationship as a whole into the situation just because you guys are fighting over coming home late etc. Not every fight means there is a problem with your relationship. If you do one thing - it should be not to bring up this any more. If she asks you, you're answer should be "Of course not, why would you ask that?"

Pick your arguments. I understand that you "snapped" as such, but if you are going to start an argument try and make sure you are starting the right argument. You talk like this was the straw that broke the Blaze's back...you need to get this shit off your chest before all it takes is one straw. If there are genuine problems - address them. Address them calmly and in the right situation. Know what you're going to say beforehand so that you don't have a case of verbal diarrhea and end up causes more trouble than there was to start with. You want to be in a position where there's no chance of a little thing pushing you over the edge.

Like I said - the best thing you can do is sit down and chat about how both of you feel. If I can be as gay as a teddy bear's rainbow for a moment - you need to tell her not what annoys you, but how stuff makes you feel. Don't accuse. Don't be angry. Explain how things frustrate you, or upset you, not how they piss you off or make you angry. This isn't about anyone doing anything wrong, it's about compromising so that you're both happy.

Again, I wish you the best of luck.
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Old 04-23-2011, 03:31 PM   #46 (permalink)
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I don't get it.
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I'll repeat what Andy said basically.

Yell at her. Speak nonsense. Tell her to fuck-off.

If she still comes the next day or the day after and tells you "love you," then she is the one.

Oh and YOU'RE THE MAN, calm down the chick.

PS: Postpone any marriage plans for the next 3 years. First, let's see how you two get about being an unmarried couple before even talking about marriage.
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I'll repeat what Andy said basically.

Yell at her. Speak nonsense. Tell her to fuck-off.

If she still comes the next day or the day after and tells you "love you," then she is the one.

Oh and YOU'RE THE MAN, calm down the chick.

PS: Postpone any marriage plans for the next 3 years. First, let's see how you two get about being an unmarried couple before even talking about marriage.
Well ehh to the first parts lol anyway that P.S part where me and her are engaged we're not planning on getting married for a few years anyway until about 2013 or 2014 after we live together for awhile. We'll be moving in together within the next year.
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