Approaching original violence
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Re: Ugh! Fighting with your love sucks!
It sounds like they are both immature. Couples have no idea how to fight properly and there is an art to it. You can't bring up things in the past, you can't call them shitty names or take low blow shots at something you know is going to hurt them, they will always remember.
Honestly, screaming at each other is a waste of time. My fiance has a really nutty temper and sometimes it's hard to deal with her in that regard. It's not good when I start to yell so I just let her blow off her steam and then we sit down and talk about it like adults. I'm not going to stand there and scream at someone.