Hey man, just something I wanted to clear up with you. Before you go any further, this rant isn't supposed to be negative, so please don't take it that way.
Joey warned me about starting with you, saying something along the lines of it's like beating up an 80 year old man, while fun what point do you prove when you win?
So lets cut right to it, I am against internet bullying, I don't see what you accomplish by picking on somebody online, or in real life for that matter. You bring down their self esteem so much eventually some, not a huge percent but a big enough percent for it to be brought to everybody's attention, they commit suicide. Do I insult back? Of course but if I were to just back off and not fight back I'd look like a huge pussy, people who are being bullied need to learn that if you fight back, if you stand up to a bully like the kind Joey and I are currently fighting in these very rants, you don't allow them to log off at night thinking they've accomplished something.
If we fight back we can go to bed knowing we did everything we could to make the bullies day a living hell online, while they go to bed dreaming up a new plan of attack for the next morning. I don't go picking on random people out of nowhere, they attack me, or they attack Joey first. Taylor did just that, he follows us from rant to rant trying to get under our skin, but it is us who has gotten under his, we're fighting the good fight.
Internet bullying has become such a huge problem, nobody has a real answer for it, some say if you ignore them, they'll stop but that doesn't work. Others say tell an adult, but what does that do? They tell he bullies parents and the bullying becomes worse. What do I say they should do, give it right back to them, after a while the bully will get tired of losing the battle and stop.
How's that for backing up my opinion. internet bullying needs to stop and I am the one who will end it once and for all.
So, youre fighting fire with fire? Stopping people bringing down others' self esteem by attempting to bring down theirs, therefore making them even more inclined to continue with their bullying? That's just fueling the fire, not putting it out.
You've got a good cause, I'm not debating that, youre just going about it the wrong way, in my opinion. You mentioned Taylor? I don't see how you can call him fat and gay, without that making him feel bad. I don't know what he's said to you or Jupiter in the past, but you getting all riled up and responding to it is only going to make matters worse. It would be better if you'd just ignore it and not let it get to you, because if you respond to someone saying something negative, then they will respond, and the cycle repeats. Do you see what I'm saying?
You think of yourself as a keeper of the peace, right? Then lead by example. If you change the way you go about your mission, taking the peaceful road instead of the angry violent one, maybe others will see that and think 'wow, if even the infamous Mr.Styles can change, and stop the name calling and bitchery, maybe i can too!'
The way youre doing it at the moment, youre coming off as an arrogant, immature child. You can change that, if you really want to.
I know you and i have had our arguments recently, I'll be a big boy and apologise if anything I've said has hurt or offended you in any way. I disagreed with you on some points, got angry about it and said some potentially offensive things. I called you out, called you a liar and a hypocrite. I'm sorry, I was obviously going about trying to get through to you the wrong way. I hope you'll read this and see things in a more positive light, and i hope you realise that there are better ways of going about what you are trying to do.
That goes for anyone who reads this, not just Mr.Styles. It could be much nicer around here, im just sayin.