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select a use · 07-07-2006, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by walls

Thats why I became a pirate. I get to travel the world, wear an eye patch, and have a bird sit on my shoulder. Life is sweet.

Thats one of the greatest replies i've ever seen.

At 15 all relationships are utter shit anyway, dont go emo on us.

joe kills all · 07-07-2006, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by RVD_da_Man

A big thanks for the advice Spartanlax and all the other members here, but a sad message arrived.
But it too late now i just got a text message from her saying

'i don't feel like i used to about you anymore i want to be friends'.

Damn that sucks i finally find a girl i really like and now its over. Why do us guys bother having relationships? because the chick makes us feel so special when we are with them thats why.

Can't believe its other.

I want to say thanks for the advice again guys but it was too late

Hate to be the one to say i told you so, but that is life. It has happened to me, 3 years ago i was so inlove with this girl named tayler and when we were going to get married she dumped me, that killed me inside but after a while i got over it, and so will you.

Unforgiver98 · 07-07-2006, 05:43 PM

if ya go gay i got a friend for ya
jp
sorry to here dude
i just got over my doubts on my gf but i found out she really likes me and has no atempt to cheet or break up on me cause she also have friends that there is one dude that they know one another for 5 years and he was goin to ask her out but i beat him to it and when i read the mesages i would get a gut feeling she would cheet on me or break up
but dude this aint bout me its bout u sorry to here but there is other girls out there bad relationships r ment to happen its just one of those things god made up to screw us all =p

**Aussie** · 07-07-2006, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by RVD_da_Man

A big thanks for the advice Spartanlax and all the other members here, but a sad message arrived.
But it too late now i just got a text message from her saying

'i don't feel like i used to about you anymore i want to be friends'.

Damn that sucks i finally find a girl i really like and now its over. Why do us guys bother having relationships? because the chick makes us feel so special when we are with them thats why.

Can't believe its other.

I want to say thanks for the advice again guys but it was too late

Sorry to hear that. It obviously sucks to get dumped but you will get over it, you're still young so you have the rest of your life to find someone. Just enjoy being 15 and spending time with your friends.

Best of luck to you.

**Spartanlax** · 07-07-2006, 07:24 PM

Dude, just rape her.

Kidding, that's illegal

But really, sorry to hear that man. I'd talk to you about it on MSN, but my MSN is broken.

**2Slick** · 07-07-2006, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by RVD_da_Man

Hey guys.

Before i start this topic i just want to say this topic is about me asking for advice/help in the relationship i am in with a girl. So please don't try jokes or spam i want serious answers.

Anyway i am going out with a girl and she has a so called 'friend' who is a lad. These two seem very very close to each other and i mean close. Like i found out they both have a crush on each other. So anyway they are both close to each other and its really bothering me.

Sooo today i open my Myspace messages and find a message from my girlfriend , i then read it.

So i get this message off her today and now it makes me think is my relationship going to end now maybe my girlfriend is going to dump me for this guy. I really need some advice guys , she says she needs time to think so what should i do?

I really don't know what is going on now Help please guys.

I'm sorry to see you go through this unfortunate ordeal. I've spoken to you on MSN before and you seem like a nice guy and it sucks when these types of things happen to people that aren't the usual pricks.

From the sounds of it, what you are describing, there does appear to be some interest in that other guy on her end. I know it sucks, but it may just be leading to that, unfortunately.

I don't know how long the two of you have been together or how much you love her and vice versa, but if you really do have extreme feelings for her and don't want to let her go, then you have to try your best to talk to her about what you are feeling, get it out in the open. If you keep what you are feeling all booked up inside and closed out from her, she isn't going to realize what you are thinking and truly feeling about the situation.

From the message that she left, it does sound like she is having second thoughts about something. Whether it be about ending the relationship or not, I don't fully know. I haven't read the entire thread as of yet, but I think you should really consider sitting down and discussing this with her fully before she tries and tells you what's on her mind.

If after all of that she still decides she wants to end it, then she may just need some time to think. Some women, when they say that they need time to think, they may not actually be confused, but have some sort of alterior motive behind those seemingly innocent words. I'm not saying that's definitely the case here, but it possibly could be.

Or, if you want to get bold, you could always talk to this friend of her's and see what's going on. It might not work out well, but you may want to try every resource that you can if you really care for her.

Regardless of the outcome, I wish you the best and am sorry about your situation.

Edit -

And then I read the rest of the thread.

I really am getting old

young chop · 07-07-2006, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RVD_da_Man

A big thanks for the advice Spartanlax and all the other members here, but a sad message arrived.
But it too late now i just got a text message from her saying

'i don't feel like i used to about you anymore i want to be friends'.

Damn that sucks i finally find a girl i really like and now its over. Why do us guys bother having relationships? because the chick makes us feel so special when we are with them thats why.

Can't believe its other.

I want to say thanks for the advice again guys but it was too late

homie..you're 15...listen to my advice. you got a long way ahead of you, do not, i repeat DO NOT let a girl kill your spirit. it will happen to you again, just think of it this way: use the situation as fuel to pick up a girl who appreciates you and knows what she wants. females are hassas. want more then what they need. my advice: harshly, get over it. youre too young to stress it... wow i feel old

**2Slick** · 07-07-2006, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by young chop

homie..you're 15...listen to my advice. you got a long way ahead of you, do not, i repeat DO NOT let a girl kill your spirit. it will happen to you again, just think of it this way: use the situation as fuel to pick up a girl who appreciates you and knows what she wants. females are hassas. want more then what they need. my advice: harshly, get over it. youre too young to stress it... wow i feel old

Welcome to my world.

Only I am old and feel it, too.

I just don't look it.