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Old 05-21-2005, 01:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Thursday night my roommate and I threw a party.

We invited 20 of our closest friends, and their significant others.

All was going great until about 2am, it was then that I opened my bathroom door, and saw the boyfriend of my closest friend sitting on the side of the bathtub with a needle in his arm!

I went ballistic!!

I raised hell, and ended up physically throwing his ass out.

Now, just so ya'll know, I had a dear friend, Chastity, die from an overdose about 4 years ago, and all of my friends know that, and they know how strongly I feel about needle dope.

I am the type who doesn't judge my friends for their drug choices, but cannot, and will not, ever accept the use of needles in my presence, or in my home!

They all know that, yet my friend is now pissed at me for throwing her boyfriend out, and for cursing him, even though she knows how I feel, and why.

Now I'm wondering, in light of her reaction, if she ever really was my friend at all.

If she was, wouldn't she be more supportive of my feelings, and of my reaction to the situation, even if it was her boyfriend?

Also, knowing my feelings, shouldn't she have told her boyfriend to either refrain from shooting up in my house, or just not go?

Or, do ya'll think I was wrong, and should have kept my mouth shut, and let it slide?
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Old 05-21-2005, 01:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Beyond Pissed....but did I go to far?

I have a friend whose uncle died from a heroine addiction, and he felt really strong about it. I would've done the same thing you did at the moment, but that doesn't mean it was right. Maybe you could've kept you're mouth shut, and you could've explained the whole situation to your friend later. Sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends can manipulate the way their partners think, this could've been the case for your friend. The bottom line is, she should've handled it better and you should've kept your mouth shut and explained it later...I know it was really hard to let it slip, so it wasn't your fault. I have a strong opposition against dope, so I have your back on this one.
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Old 05-21-2005, 03:23 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I would've done the same. The only thing I'd have done different would be to not come on a forum afterwards and rant about it. I would've just went to bed, and continued with my usual life like nothing happened. Then I would've went to a mirror, stripped nude, and played with my boobs and crotch, cuz I'd have a female body. Sweet.
But yeah, don't get hung up on things. Just act upset towards your friend for a while so she knows she's in the wrong, then once she apologizes, get back to the normal swing of things. If she ignores your feelings, screw her. Obviously wasn't much of a friend in the first place then.
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Old 05-21-2005, 03:38 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I don't blame you for not wanting drugs in your house. Your house, your rules. I suppose it really depends how you carried on about it though, you could have asked him nicely to leave straight away and then kept your little discovery to yourself or you could have yelled and screamed and announced your discovery to the whole damn neighborhood. If it was the latter, I don't blame your friend for being shit off with you.
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Old 05-21-2005, 11:03 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I don't see anything wrong with the actions you made. You obviously don't like the needle anywhere near you. Your friend should have respected your feelings about it, and supported you once you decided to throw out her boyfriend. She should be able to know how you truly feel. Based on how she's defending her boyfriend, I'd say she's no friend at all. Leave her and move on.
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Old 05-21-2005, 11:21 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Don't feel bad dude, I would of probably kicked the guys ass instead, if he wanted to get stone I would of beat some sense into him-that is what he needed-besides she is a woman she will eventually get over it or she won't and if she doesn't she is not a friend-good friend always forgive and forget-stay positive.
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Sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends can manipulate the way their partners think, this could've been the case for your friend.
....excellent point.

anyway, it was your place and you can do whatever. a better statement of your feelings towards needles would have been taking it from him and sticking him in the eye with it.
personally, i hate needle freaks and havent ever allowed them to use around me. i would have reacted similiar to how you did.
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Old 05-21-2005, 01:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I would've done the same exact thing. I know people who do that all over my house. Drug abuse like that should never be accepted. If your friend can't except that, they should go away. I wouldn't be mad at the dude that much, because he might not know how you feel.
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Old 05-21-2005, 03:00 PM   #9 (permalink)
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you did not go to far i had 2 uncles die from drug overdoses and anytime i go to a party and see needles or someone using them i freak out.I would of done the samething if i was in ur shoes
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I don't know anyone that has ever had a heroin addiction. I know people who've taken every other drug, but not heroin by injection. It's a filthy drug and a disgusting one. I wouldn't keep company with anyone who used it, more so than any other narcotic.
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