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Old 05-08-2005, 03:47 AM   #111 (permalink)
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William, please ignore all the people who have said bad things to you. If you learn how to ignore nasty comments now your life will be a lot easier.

When i read that you were 13 in your mini description on the left (below avatar), i thought it was a joke. I didn't think there was any way a 13 year old was writing the posts ive seen you contribute, but it seems that you are actually 13. I know things are looking bad in your life right now, but i'd like to accentuate some positives for you. You are obviously very smart and mature for your age, and these tools will be your assets that allow you to rise above the jackasses and succeed in life. Trust me, being smart is a great tool - and a horrible burden. Anyone can work out and become fit, strong, attractive watever. Not everyone can be smart. In fact, i think the reason you are so sad is because you are smart. Usually from what i have seen, the most depressed people are also the smartest.

A lot of people have told you that you are only 13, and that you have your whole life ahead of you - and this is true. I'm sure it doesn't make you feel any better about yourself though does it? Of course not. Once your mind gets overwhelmed with all the issues you may or may not have, it gets incredibly hard to come out of that slump. I know exactly how you feel, and i have felt exactly the same way before. In fact, until a few days ago, i was in one of the worst times in my life.

After i finished high school with medicore results (i didn't try for various reasons i'm not going into here), i enrolled in a Certifigate course in my local uni which would last for a year. About 6 months in i lost interest and decided to not show up or try. That was about 1 year ago. From about that point, I would do nothing but sit around all day playing games, smoking dope occasionly, eating food, going on the internet and get fatter. I was under the impression that, i was a nobody, had no life, had no future, and had no chance. I couldnt find a job. I couldnt get my licence. My marks were too garbage to go back to the uni i had just ditched. So, i just did nothing. It is hard to describe how much despair I had, and how much i felt that my situation was really hopeless, of course it wasn't, but i was too blind to see it. Recently i have woken up and decided to move so i can go to uni, and hopefully the rest of my life will get on track from there. My point is, until a few days ago, i was under the impression that my life was pretty much a failure. Now, i have hope for the future and plans. All i did, was get so fed up with myself, that i forced myself to change. If you really really hate the way you are now, then i suggest you take some action. It's not easy, in fact, i've yet to lose any weight, or get a girlfriend, but there is always time for that.

Don't let girlfriends get you down though. I've never had a girlfriend, but ive had sex with two different chicks. In my opinion, i skipped the race and got the trophy It will happen for you, eventually. Everyone feels akward and stupid and ugly in puberty, but when you get a bit older you might gain a new perspective on things.

I was really picked on as a kid. I was overweight(still am but im over it), i had terrible acne, glasses, i thought i was ugly, people used to give me a lot of crap. No girls dated me, ever. I had no friends at some points, and at others i did have friends. All i have to say though, is that friends, girlfriends, looks, and all that are overrated. People place way too much importance on them, and some come with time. I think time is really the key factor here. You just have to wait for some things, and work on others. Your weight, for example, will not just dissapear. As for friends, well, it doesnt sound like you are going to meet any in school, so i think you will have to go randomly approach people and talk to them. This can be the hardest thing in the world when you have a low self esteem, but there really isn't any other way to make it happen. Apart from internet friends.

Basically, if you want anything bad enough, you can have it. I know things seem like they will never get better and your life is doomed, but things will get better. All you have to do is endure, and you will come out stronger because of it. If you only take one thing away from this post, take this: stop putting yourself down. It really doesn't help in any way, in fact it just lowers your self esteem more and more, until you have none left. Thinking positive is probably the most important thing. I don't know if any of this made sense but i tried to express myself, so i hope it helped in some way.

Good luck, let me know how things go for you.
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Old 05-08-2005, 04:09 AM   #112 (permalink)
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Christ. The last thing a depressed 13 year old needs is a girlfriend.

Stay away from the girls until you are older you silly sod. Trust me it wont improve anything.
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Old 05-08-2005, 04:10 AM   #113 (permalink)
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Especially when she breaks up with you. It's inevitable, and it'd likely come extremely close (within months) after you're 'dating.'
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I was just taking the piss mate, No sense of Humour?
Ya, I have a sense of humour. I find banning people hilarious.

(Funny, right? Seriously though, I was probably just tired that day. Or something.)
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Ya, I have a sense of humour. I find banning people hilarious.

(Funny, right? Seriously though, I was probably just tired that day. Or something.)
Or perhaps you're just a grumpy bitch until that first Guinness hits your tongue each day...
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Old 05-08-2005, 09:25 AM   #116 (permalink)
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I feel your pain Will. Until the last couple of months me and my friends were very close, we used to hang out after school nearly everyday. But, in about January/February they just decided they were going to ignore me outside of school, I rarely leave the house anymore let alone see my so called 'friends', I spend the whole day on my computer.

At first I thought that it was just that we went out too often so we slowed down. But, then at school I soon discovered that they were still hanging out without me. What's even weirder is that they still act like mates inside of school but outside of it, it's like I don't even exist.

The most annoying thing is that every week we have a football match against one of the other classes in our year, and I happen to be our team goalie, so I am probably needed the most and they act all nice to me so I'll play and then once the match is over, it's back to the norm of ignoring me.

So you're not the only one who's life sucks ass.
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Or perhaps you're just a grumpy bitch until that first Guinness hits your tongue each day...
There may be an element of that to it, but tiredness has been proving troublesome of late. I've taken to having afternoon naps, rarely on purpose, which then means I'm still awake at 2am.
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Let me set something straight here-Posting suff like 'DO SOMETHING!!' or 'YOU ARE REALLY SAD!!' is not gonna help the kid in the slightest..Posting that shi* doesnt put you over on WE,it makes you look like a jackass thats for sure...Dynasty i gotta give you some props for your earlier post

Kid,I go on the net a LOT,but i gotta life outside the net..Im pretty much a god at my school.I see kids with no teeth,with friends..I see kids being 120 cm's being the most popular kid in our school..Whatever problems you have is no excuse,at 13 you shouldnt really be saying all that.It may sound weird but i would try get in trouble at school..Get you more noticed and maybe some friends
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^^^I would disregard pretty much most of what he said.
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I hate My life just incase you didn't see the title or you are a noob who clicks things unawarely(sp?). I hate the way I look. I hate the way I act. I can't change the way I am since I don't know how. I have no friends or acquaintances and spend almost all my days and nights on WEForums. It's sad isn't it? We'll I started this thread for a few reasons. If you are like me and have no life and spend all your day at these forums and have almost no contact with the outside world, reply. If you think I am a noob who wants attention, reply. If you think I suck, reply. Just reply to tell me what you think.

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Okay, you said "I don't know how". I shall go in specifics, and hopefully this will help you.

First off, being "popular" is a huge responsiblity. You worry, stress out, and there's way too much drama involved for the human mind to consume. Point is, you don't have to be "Big Man on Campus" to be happy. I myself like to live simple; I have 2 wonderful friends, decent family, in search of a girlfriend, and one goal in mind, and that's to have an incredible wife, and a nice home. These things matter to me. I'm happy, and would never want to be "The Man".

Bad Body: You seem have to have the weight to be "buff", so, look for a local health club. It doesn't have to be a nice fancy one with a huge annual fee. Spend an hour a day pushing yourself on whatever machines you desire. Keep doing this, and within a few months, you'll be glad you did. TRUST ME. You're only 13, so you'll have a great headstart.

Height problem: I'm going to say this in plain english... MILK... MILK! MILK! MILK! MILK! (Calcium) If I wasn't stupid and drank lots of milk at your age, I would be 3 or 4 inches taller. Drink 2-3 full glasses of milk a day --It will help you with your workout routine so much too!!!!

Way you act: THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!!! Imagine the NEXT quote (or action) you're about to say is in supreme court, and the supreme court justices will judge whether these quotes will be the correct things to say to the persons you're talking too. If it is say it, if not, shut up! Overtime, you won't have to think about it, and you'll do it naturally. This is probably the hardest thing to fix, but it's possible.

Have no friends: It's real hard to find a good friend in this world, but you need to socialize more, this way it won't be too hard. Don't take things too seriously, don't expect people to be "pure angles", friends will hurt you once in awhile (from experience) but just know, you're not perfect either.

SCREW THE NEGATIVITY: I'm still trying to convince myself of this, but don't give a shit what other people think. Worrying about what they think of you won't do nothing for you, except make you depressed. FU$# what they say about you, they'll win when you throw in the towel. People always talk about other people, it's almost human nature. Whether you're a high school jock, or nerd, you'll always be talked about. I use to be just like you, I played the negativity of my day over and over again in my head until I surely was depressed. And then, I said, **** IT! **** THEM! WHY THE **** AM I LETTING THEM GET THE BEST OF ME! They can all kiss my ass, I could care less!

The Truth: You're only 13 years old, and things will get better when you have a job and a life. PM me if you got questions or need some advice. Take care.

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