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Eddie · 05-31-2003, 04:06 AM

I was (and still am) like you, On April 6th this year, my mum died aswell. She was 52, she had been ill since the age of 11, told she wouldnt walk, but she did. I like to think of her proving all those doctors wrong, I've not even told my friends this stuff, they know she died, but im opening up on a wrestling forum, perhaps its cus i dont really know you people. Im starting to get a teary eyed. So let me get to the point i wanted to make.

When I was talking to my ex-girlfriends mum (shes pretty religious) she just kept on saying things like, "God labels somethings, Will explain later". To me thats not good enough. I see know reason why a girl of 11 will become so ill for no reason and basically live a life of pain and suffer. Its not like she was the only one who suffered either, our whole family suffered, watching her suffer made me and other family members feel some of the pain aswell.I find it hard to believe in THE God people talk about when these type of things happen, but I believe the mind is too powerful just to stop and not do anything after the body dies.

**A-Dust** · 05-31-2003, 04:00 PM

Sorry to hear about your Mother to Eddie.

Guitar Pl4yer · 06-01-2003, 07:03 PM

OK, now I'll try to give a little advice to you Adam since I think I might have some. Take some time of work or school or whatever you have, if you even have to go, and just mope around and let it sink in a little. Try to get used to it. I find that the fact that things are changing is the hardest part of any situation like this, so getting used to it will help you cope. Don't do/say anything you can't take back, ANYTHING. Try to help you siblings after you get this done, because it will help them if it comes from somebody who is over(VERY bad term to use, but I can't think of anything else for it)it.

I'd like to say I'm sorry for you Eddie, now I see why you haven't been on in awhile.

On the religion debate: I think the fact(probably another bad term) that there is a Satan(in most religions) proves that God doesn't have a set plan, and if he does it is flawed. Why would an opponent be part of a plan? I don't think you have a set purpose to be alive other than to live and enjoy it. I think that you control what happens in your life.

EDIT: Since this has kind of got off-topic, split the thread and send part to Debates?

nWo-back-in-black · 06-01-2003, 07:21 PM

I know how u all feel but you shouldn't really question God but hey its your life do what u want man,sorry about your mom dude.

Ken Slade · 06-02-2003, 05:57 PM

Hiya....my condolences to you and your family for your loss i also feel that i may know how you are feeling as within two weeks of one another i had lost an aunt and a Very Close Friend and a good friend to the family all young (33, 17 and 37) I found talking about it was the best thing to do and try not to hate urself as this willl make everything worse............i cant give too much advice as i dont want to send you the wrong way.......you should however do whatever feels natural to yourself and remember there will allways be somebody there for you and there is allways somebody to talk to...........
Once Again My Condolences

Regards
Sladester