well i guess i could help you out with the PWG ones....
for a 5 star classic "wrestling" match go for BOLA 06, i saw a vid for the highlights(don't ask me where i found it, i totally don't know
) those matches look so great.
For a 5 star "gimmick" match Threemendous....Battledome Steel Cage Match between Joey Ryan(yeah Joey in a 5 star match) vs B-Boy. It might not sound great but that match was insane, not to mention it has 6 other solid undercard matches.
BOLA 05 sucks only compared to this years but it has its really good matches on there, they went really technical style on that event, showing there pure wrestling side...mainly with Danielson's matches and the 8 man tag is one of the best and most memorable PWG matches to date.
Beyond The Thunderdome & Hollywood Globetrotters have two stellar tag team title main events with Davey Richards & Super Dragon vs AJ & Daniels(BTT) and Davey & Dragon vs Evans & Strong(HG). You should love those ones.
PWG's only 60 min Iron Man Match has Joey Ryan(face) vs Super Dragon(heel) from "Use Your Illusion 4" .....PWG Bicentenial Birthday Extravaganza nights 1 and 2 are very solid shows, All of the "All Star Weekend" shows are excellent....."The Next Show" has a ladder match, "The Reason For The Season" has a Steel Cage Match Loser Leaves PWG, The Tengo & Cash Invatational is the PWG tag title tourny, "An Inch Longer Than Average" has a insane Guerrilla Warfare match between Joey Ryan & Super Dragon(this was before ironman) & 88 Miles Per Hour has a 10 Man Tag Team Match plus Wrestlers from Japan fill the entire card. One more thing too "The Reason For The Season" has a great match between AJ Styles & Rocky Romero too.
its a lot but i hope that helps as those are the shows that have some of the most memorable moments/matches. Plus "A Crusin For A Brusin", "Zombies Shouldn't Run" & both "European Vacation" shows are good as well. Once again i hope that helps