[Cole Phelps]

I feel you man and i think i will try and chat up one of them hotties like you said what's the worse thing that can happen ?

[wrestlingfan91]

They could get offended light a stick on fire and burn you, but that's really all they could do, no just kidding, you'd be surprised how well females react to you, you just gotta be cool, and i dont mean try to impress them, just talk, dont be nervous, the worst thing they can say is no.

Haven't been around lately, just kinda looking into this thread every day or so, i dont post anywhere else anymore which is why i probably should leave the forum, i just have no desire to discuss Wrestling with internet fans, i am not going on a rant how i am not part of the IWC, i just dont like talking with pesimists, everything is shit to them(not all) so i dont wanna become them. This thread has attracted some pretty cool people so i always come back for the storys and tips and what not. I am mostly now working, sleeping and getting high, had a few trips over the last few week, the last wasn't great, was on LSD and i realized that i am not happy in my situation now, but yeah, i get so tired from work that by the weekend i am too lazy and hurting from work that i stay in and smoke my ganja, which is always cool but i almost seem like this is all i do, i sleep to work, i eat to work, i get high to forget the stress and here i am again in sunday, Monday knocking on the door...and it all starts again, just feel in a rut, does anyone have expirience with that?

Oh and i watched totally stoned Rocky Balboa yesterday, AWESOME Movie.

[geraldinhio]

Everyone feels like this , it's pretty much anyones life who works on a regular basis . I'm in college but the party for me is over as it's my final year and shit just got real . I have labs , projects , lectures , tests etc and just feel like i'm stuck in a rut . You should do what I , and a lot of people do and just enjoy your time off . Go drinking , get high , do what ever makes you happy and try and have something to look foward to at the weekends and the week will go faster . Kinda stupid logic , ya ?

[wrestlingfan91]

Nah makes sense, thanks, i guess better times will follow.

[Premium Walls]

You need to start hitting the gym, son. Whenever I am in a rut and I get blasted and then go work out. Not everyone likes to work out though. Maybe try some BJJ as well (Brazilian Jiu-jitsu), the game of trying to kill your opponent is fun. I trained for a little bit but had to stop due to finances but I managed to become friends with a guy there who's way better than me so sometimes he teaches me shit and we roll and that's fun as fuck, despite me getting tapped constantly. Or go for a run, exercise is a great anti-depressant. Plus, if you look good the women will like it which again will lead to better things.

[JBL_Wrestling_God]

Originally Posted by Cole Phelps

I mean they give me some wierd as looks but come on when your that hot im gonna look and sure maybe i should try and talk to them but im a loser and their better of without me well that's how i see shit anyway i live a crazy life what can i say

I think that's somewhat understandable. You said you have not got laid yet so it's probally complicated and you overthink when trying to approach girls. Maybe start off with an ugly fat chick and work yourself up slowly? You just have to STOP fucking talking down to yourself like that. You can't start out with smoking hotties when your calling yourself a loser. Good luck Phelps!

[Premium Walls]

Cole, let me be your life coach. I'll do it for free. You can't keep talking yourself down like that because if you don't like yourself, how can someone else like you? And if they do get past that it won't last because you're so negative.

Personally, I have an ego that can't fit into a football stadium. I went through an ugly duckling syndrome when I was younger and I couldn't get any women. Back in the first part of high school, I had the most popular girl tell me that I couldn't be in the same room as her because I was too ugly and to go walk around the corner. And she did this in front of the entire class, so I was no prize back then. But then I grew out of it and got a gf (I started off with a 10 though, not going to lie) and then it snowballed from there. So since then I have gained tremendous confidence and that helped immensely. Being funny really, really helps. I've gotten more women with my personality than my looks. If you can make them laugh, you're in.

Having a big dick doesn't hurt either, the Irish Curse thankfully missed me by a country mile. Black guys aren't intimidating to me, just saying. So, in closing: Stop being down on yourself, although it's easier said than done. Fake confidence if you have to, eventually it will turn into real confidence. You're a funny guy from what I can gather on here, use it. And if you don't have a big dick, master the art of oral. Now spread your wings and fly, you're a new man Cole.

[Red Viper]

, Walls so ugly he got kicked out of a room.

[JBL_Wrestling_God]

Originally Posted by Walls

Cole, let me be your life coach. I'll do it for free. You can't keep talking yourself down like that because if you don't like yourself, how can someone else like you? And if they do get past that it won't last because you're so negative.

Personally, I have an ego that can't fit into a football stadium. I went through an ugly duckling syndrome when I was younger and I couldn't get any women. Back in the first part of high school, I had the most popular girl tell me that I couldn't be in the same room as her because I was too ugly and to go walk around the corner. And she did this in front of the entire class, so I was no prize back then. But then I grew out of it and got a gf (I started off with a 10 though, not going to lie) and then it snowballed from there. So since then I have gained tremendous confidence and that helped immensely. Being funny really, really helps. I've gotten more women with my personality than my looks. If you can make them laugh, you're in.

Having a big dick doesn't hurt either, the Irish Curse thankfully missed me by a country mile. Black guys aren't intimidating to me, just saying. So, in closing: Stop being down on yourself, although it's easier said than done. Fake confidence if you have to, eventually it will turn into real confidence. You're a funny guy from what I can gather on here, use it. And if you don't have a big dick, master the art of oral. Now spread your wings and fly, you're a new man Cole.

The most popular girl in the school thing is awful and I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Highschool is filled with bullshit and it seems like 75% of the people are fake. Were you trying to make a move on the girl or something? What the hell happened?

I agree about the personality thing towards woman and being able to make them laugh. I'm real young only 18 years old and havent had any type of luck with woman either so that's why I'm trying to get guys like Cole Phelps to stay strong because I can relate. I can see what you are saying though about making them laugh and all of that because I believe about 70 or 80% of what woman want is just a good guy to talk to and just to be confortable with personality wise. Having good lucks never hurts but I don't think you are going to get denied solely based off looks unless you are dealing with a stuckup bitch like perhaps the popular bitch in your highschool. I try to be funny and try to connect with girls in a weird way sometimes and even when I think I'm doing ok I stil sense a bad vibe from woman and can't get anything going worth a shit. Even if I'm not attracted to a girl and I'm just trying to get conversation going to be friends it's a little difficult because what the fuck am I supposed to talk to them about? I usually talk to guys about sports or some type of guy shit but I'm not interested in what your averge girl is interested in. About the big dick thing, I'm 6"3 and I workout and have a reasonable body but the downtown area is not something my daddy blessed me with unfortunately but that's just something the girl is just going to have to work around you know? Anyways, Just thought I would drop down my thoughts towards the subject as well.

[Red Viper]

Being sorry for walls just because he got called really ugly(still btw) won`t help. It probably help thicken his skin, which everyone needs, and you have to be able to carry on in life during those moments and situations. If that happened to me I`d probably smack the bitch, but since Walls is a bitch he probably went into the bathroom and cried like a bitch.