Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Blue Mountain State
Re: I'm thinking of joining a dating site...
I've used a few websites myself. They are great ways of meeting people for those of us who work all the time and can't really have a normal social life. However, be warned some of the people there are only looking for a hook up, which is how every one of my experiences except two ended up. I won't share to many details about the experiences right now because I'm tired and just got off of work. I will say this, if you're interested in having any success, you have got to make yourself interesting.
Be creative. One thing I did was I put either "Mechanical Bullfighter" or "Air Guitar Instructor" as my professions. Have interesting pictures. Don't make your profile bland. And for gods sake, if you message a girl, read her profile first and make comments about the shit she wrote to let her know you paid attention.
And most importanly... When messaging her, never, and I can't stress this enough use "What's up Boom Boom Kitty Fuck" as the title of your email to her. I tried it and the only time I got a response, it wasn't pretty.
I used some online dating books and they have some good shit in them, but there are some that are duds. If you have a kindle download The Black Bloom of online dating. You will thank me at firat and maybe even hate me later after you get a stalker.