Re: Members how did you get a gf/bf?
Where did I meet my partners? Let's see; through sports, late night rehearsals and set builds at the theatre, at a bar, at the gym and at a wrestling show (true). I never used to have any trouble finding dates or having relationships, my issues were more along the lines of explaining my non-interest. However, for the past few months, I'm starting to see that crazy cat lady future looming down the road.
I've gotta stock up on cats.
Oh, and op: try hanging out at places full of people....wait, you're anti-social, right? So why do you want a girlfriend anyway? She'll be asking you to spend time together, being sociable. If you're still determined to not be forever alone, how about the library? I've had guys by me coffees and cookies at the library or the park or that sort of place. If the girl ignores you, you can just go back to quietly doing what you were doing.