I amsad to announce that i've returned to this website with a heavy heart. Just recently I have broken up with my girlfriend and it hurts so much. We have been together for a long time and she has always been absolutely head over heels for me, just last month I took her on vacation and she announced to me that she had lost her feelings for me. I don't understand how someone that loved you so much would just lose their feelings like that. If it possible for a woman to regain her love after losing it? I am just so devastated right now, I never loved someone as much as i loved her, we had an inseperable bond and for her to do this to me is the hardest i've ever had to deal with. I don't feel like going out anymore, I don't feel like eating, I can hardly sleep all i have is her on my mind. What can i do to make it better? Hopefully there are some relationship experts on here that can share their own stories and help me through this mess it would be appreciated. thanks
I amsad to announce that i've returned to this website
People will stop reading right there to be honest.
Though on topic, hope it works out for you. There are women out there that can be very odd sometimes with their emotions, maybe just go over what you did the past while and see if you made a mistake or pissed her off somehow and obviously dont do that.
I never did anything bad in the past, i always treated her right but there was a period in our relationship that I broke up with her for reasons too personal to talk about on this website. We eventually got back together but I know that me leaving her hurt her alot. but I always felt like she wanted it to work out more than anything and just like that out of the blue she just lost interest.
She may just feel smothered. Have you talked to her since then?
Yes i have, she just wants to stay friends. She said it took her a long time to get over me after the first time we broke up and she is afraid of getting hurt again but I always thought that if you loved someone enough you would be willing to fight through the storm. She knows how much i love her i tell her all the time, but she wanted out of the relationship. Aside from that she didn't talk about it much, I think she is keeping things inside which is making it harder for me to fully understand.