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What's a good date for my girlfriend?

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#1 ·
I just got a girlfriend, What's a good date idea to take her on? Thanks for the help.
 
#15 ·
No movies. Don't listen to these jabronis and don't go to a wrestling forum for dating advice. A movie provides no opportunity for interaction at all. You need to do an activity that involves working together. Whatever that may be. It should include some type of movement. Trust me when I talk to you about kinetics. You could always ask her if she had anything in mind, but thst either goes 1 of 2 ways with any woman, she likes that you were considerate enough to ask, or she might think your too timid and undecisive, all depends on the girl.



Also, be reasonable. If the girl likes animals that doesn't necessarily mean bring her to the zoo. In other words, she could uncomfortable with animal captivity. Just be mindful.


Heres a thought: A night with a few sets of smaller activities might be more favorable over a night with one long activity. Keeps the brain in motion as well, me thinks.
 
#20 ·
My wife and I met as somewhat of a joke by a roommate of mine at college. He brought back to our dorm a new woman every night, and I told him the least he could do is have her bring one for me. Lo and behold, the next evening the woman that came over with him brought her friend. For our impromptu first date, we just walked to a local coffee shop and just talked. For our real first date, it was pretty simple but fun. We went out for a burger and then bowling.

While you don't want to get advice from here, if you insist...think outside the box for a date. You couldn't go wrong with a picnic lunch...get a bucket of chicken or sandwiches and potato salad from a deli and just enjoy. If she enjoys the outdoors, take her on a hike.
 
#7 ·
Well, dinner and a movie is a standard and not a bad idea. How well do you know her? If its still early on, I'd pass on the movie for something you can talk during. You know, getting to know one another better.

I'd say a nice dinner followed with a walk through the park that evening. Nice setting, hold her hand and just talk.
 
#16 ·
Go to a movie?

But real talk though, be careful because in my experience, women are not loyal man. Watch out for these signs:

1. If she is always on her phone texting.

2. If she says she will call you back but never does.

3. If she flakes out on your date and make up some bs excuse such as: my phone service got shut off. Or I sprained my knee.

4. If she starts acting distant and ignores you.

I'm just looking out for you OP.
 
#5 ·
Can't go wrong with the classics, my man. A good dinner or a film.
 
#19 · (Edited)
Girlfriends are a waste of money and time IMO yet I cherish my first girlfriend the most despite knocking her up. It was mid-September at 59th street in the now-closed Samsung store where I first met her. She was older than me and about to go to college next year. You'd think being a 15-year old not so intimidating nerd playing Guitar Hero would be a surefire repellent from the ladies but I figuratively gripped my balls, asked her some questions, asked if she was with anyone. She said "no" and accepted going for a walk with me, lately culminating into a relationship that ended with the aforementioned pregnancy.

I pretty much took her to Central Park, carried her inside on my back for fun, rode one of those Central Park horse carts, went to Coney Island, took her to a Red Bulls game, to a Knicks game, etc. It's all about taking a woman for a good time. A "dinner" is cliche and often expected from them, which results in bemusement. A good time is something they'll be impressed. Just be sure to have a lot of money available and not look like a fashion-ignorant buffoon mixing an argyle sweater with Adidas sweatpants and basketball sneakers like I did on my first date.
 
#21 ·
Dinners always a good idea, dont go to somewhere too crowded/busy/noisy though, hard to get to know someone when you can barely hear them.

Lunch dates are pretty relaxed but not really a first date thing.

Movies are an easy date, gotta pick a shit chick flick though and at least go out for coffee/drinks afterwards.
 
#22 ·
Well, if she's your girlfriend than this shouldn't be your first date. I personnally like drink, walk, dinner or movies. Only go to the movies if you know each other for a while, if not do anything where u can talk.
 
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