Re: Would you date someone taller or shorter than you or bigger?
It's never mattered to me. I've never dated a woman taller than me, but pretty close in height. I've dated women who were quite a bit shorter, women were have been quite thin, women with some curves, large boobs, small boobs, big butt, no butt, blondes & brunettes. Hell, I even had a couple of dates with a lesbian that was interested in seeing what it would be like to date a man.
As long as the personalities have meshed right, as long as there is good conversations & of course some good sex, height & all that is such a non-issue.
And in closing, my wife is 4 inches shorter than me & rarely wears heels.