Play BOF3. I'd save the best for last (whatever might be the best for you, seeing as you're not a big fan of FFIX
). Damn you getting Vagrant Story and BOF3!
Grandia owns. You should play that after BOF3. As for Wild Arms, play it before Vagrant Story. I'm gonna head into Play-N-Trade tomorrow and see their stock of old games. Hopefully they have the ones I want.