All I know that if a hot ass twenty something wanted to fuck me when I was 14, or 15 I would be fine with that. I wouldn't see them as controlling as much as I would see it as my hormones wanting some action. I wouldn't even begin to think that this woman was a pervert, or sick in the head. I knew what I wanted physically when I was 14, or 15, and it was definitely a piece of ass. You know how cool you would become fucking a female adult being a teenager? I'm not suggesting that there aren't perverts out there, but what happened to free will? If a 14 year old girl wants to have sex with an older person, why can't she? I knew what I wanted at that age when it came to sex. For some reason it's different for females at that age.
Now read your post again and try to find out where did it all go wrong